Refactored for proper docker and mailcow setup

roles/mailcow_update/handlers/main.yaml

@@ -1,8 +1,19 @@
 ---
-- name: Restart main Docker stack
+- name: Tear down Mailcow and main Docker stack(s) (LIFO)
   become: true
   community.docker.docker_compose_v2:
-    # This targets the first directory in the list you defined in your host_vars
-    project_src: "{{ docker_compose_dirs[0] }}" 
-    state: restarted
+    project_src: "{{ item }}"
+    state: absent
+  # Drops Mailcow first, THEN loops through your main stacks
+  loop: "{{ [mailcow_dir | default('/data/mailcow')] + (docker_compose_dirs | default([])) }}"
+  listen: Restart main Docker stack
+
+- name: Bring main Docker stack(s) and Mailcow back up (FIFO)
+  become: true
+  community.docker.docker_compose_v2:
+    project_src: "{{ item }}"
+    state: present
+  # Brings your main stacks up first (recreating the network), THEN Mailcow
+  loop: "{{ (docker_compose_dirs | default([])) + [mailcow_dir | default('/data/mailcow')] }}"
+  listen: Restart main Docker stack